Domestic violence often extends beyond physical abuse, encompassing financial control and manipulation. This form of abuse, sometimes called financial abuse or economic abuse, severely limits a victim’s access to money, resources, and economic independence, trapping them in the abusive relationship.
How Financial Abuse Works
Financial abuse manifests in various ways. Abusers may control all household income, preventing the victim from accessing their own earnings. They might sabotage the victim’s employment by interfering with their work, forcing them to quit, or damaging their professional reputation. Other tactics include:
- Controlling spending: Demanding strict accounting of every expense, even small ones.
- Withholding resources: Denying access to necessities like food, clothing, transportation, or medical care.
- Exploitation: Using the victim’s assets or credit without their permission, often leading to debt or ruined credit scores.
- Preventing education or training: Hindering opportunities for the victim to improve their job skills and earning potential.
- Forcing the victim to work for the abuser’s business without pay or fair compensation.
The Devastating Impact
The consequences of financial abuse are profound and far-reaching. Victims often find themselves with:
- Limited financial resources: Making it incredibly difficult to leave the abusive situation.
- Damaged credit: Hindering their ability to secure housing, loans, or employment in the future.
- Increased dependence on the abuser: Reinforcing the power imbalance and making it harder to escape.
- Emotional distress: Leading to anxiety, depression, and feelings of helplessness.
Breaking Free: Seeking Help
Leaving a financially abusive relationship requires careful planning and support. Here are some crucial steps:
- Document the abuse: Keep records of financial transactions, threats, and any evidence of control.
- Secure important documents: Gather essential documents like birth certificates, social security cards, and bank statements.
- Open a separate bank account: If possible, establish an account the abuser cannot access.
- Seek legal advice: Consult with a lawyer specializing in domestic violence to understand your rights and options.
- Connect with support organizations: Reach out to domestic violence shelters and advocacy groups for resources, counseling, and financial assistance.
- Develop a safety plan: Create a plan for leaving safely, including where to go and how to access emergency funds.
Resources for Survivors
Numerous organizations offer support to survivors of financial abuse. The National Domestic Violence Hotline, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, and local domestic violence agencies can provide information, resources, and referrals to legal aid, financial counseling, and shelter. These resources can empower survivors to regain their financial independence and build a safer, more secure future.